This is a wonderful, no-nonsense book that contains useful, practical advice for the person who is standing at the point of potential trouble or breakup of a marriage or a relationship. Rather than the "you're not giving enough" junk that we usually read, Dr. Dobson presents the advantages of seeking wholeness for both people involved. His is the only advice I've ever seen that doesn't overdo the necessity of self-sacrifice and so-called "consideration" of the other person. I recommend it to everyone.